I'm so sorry you have to go thru this, my boys would love it if their mom-mom was still here with us because she just loved my boys. Since she died and pop-pop went to live with their dad's sister, we never see him, nor do we get invited to anything anymore, especially since Timmy died. My boys would love to have "their family" to be there for them to know they are loved. Ths woman has no clue how lucky she is!!!!! But I'm so glad you are sticking this out and hanging in there for your granddaughter, love is so powereful!!!!