I am so happy for you. God she should feel blessed that you want to stay a part of her life!!!! My boys dad and whole family for that matter have nothing to do wth my boys, before and after Timmy was killed. After my son was killed, we didn't hear from any of them for over 2 years, not one phone call to my boys, do you need anythng, are you ok, would you like to come to bbq, NOTHING. and it hurt them, and still hurts them to think they are unwelcomed and unloved. I'm so happy for you I really am, and Sandra is one lucky little girl to have a wonderful grandmom like you. You ROCK!!!!