Yes, it's so wonderful to hear and meet all of your child's friends. After twenty-five years, I still have people walk up to me and say "Are you Jill's mom?".."I knew your daughter." It is wonderful to know how many lives our children touched. It's great that you have so many wonderful stories about your son, Jim.
April....I know what you mean about people forgetting our children. We can keep them alive by telling stories about them to those relatives and friends that are close to us. There aren't too many people that understand, but share with those who are sympathetic to you and you feel safe with.