Frances
I am so sorry you are reliving all of this once again. People honestly just don't understand they think we should get better just move on. They don't understand when your child is so violently taken from you, you don't move very far from that spot. They have never gotten that call telling them your child has been shot, stabbed, beaten. they haven't had to sit outside the emergency room waiting hoping praying their child will survive and they have never had to hear those words "I am so sorry but your child didn't make it". They don't realise what it is like going through a trial having to sit in the same room with the POS that murdered your child watching him sit with a smug look or smile. they don't realise that even with a guilty verdict the pain is still with us. They just don't understand that when our children were murdered it changed our lives forever and that we will never be the same person we once were. I wonder do people think I am just feeling sorry for myself and if they do, do I care what they think??? NO I DON'T!! I don't think anyone of us feels sorry for ourselves we hurt our hearts have been broken beyond repair.
Sending bunches of Hugs
Jim's Mom
Francis, Please don't apologize for venting. This is the place to do just that. If it weren't for MOMS I don't know what I would do. We are here for each other, and as others have said the pain continues. We have lost our children in a horrific way and most people cannot understand the incredible pain we feel and as you said they really don't want to hear it. Feel free to vent any time and know we are here for you. Love ya.
Dear Frances
There are no words left so here goes and I hope it reaches you (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Love and God Bless
((((hugs)))) I wish I had the words to make you feel better, to make all the moms feel better I wish we never had to meet this way but glad we have each other.
