Laura your heart is so full of love. I appreciated your message on the morning we buried Jeff's ashes. It was a hard day and it was another day my heart brokeagain. i heard from my lawyer and Nov 30 he will be taking a deposition from one of the policeman who shot Jeff and he wants me to be there. Our city just settled another case of police shooting a non voilent mentally ill person. Youand I come from different ends of this problem but laws have to be changed so that care givers can have a voice in getting loved ones to a hospital when they need help.