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1st born killed

Im young still a child myslef i though everything was going to be good when i got pregnant with what i thought to be the love of my life. Im 15 years old and only 6 1/2 weeks a go my first born son Adden was beaten to death by his father. I dont know how to deal with this and my mother just doesnt understand. Sometimes i wish it was me and not him. Please Help!!

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Renee I am so sorry about the murder of your son Adden. What a horrible nightmare for you to be living. Yes you are young but that does not matter you are a mother forever to Adden. My heart breaks for you.

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I am so sorry for what you're going through. It must be so difficult for you, especially since you seem to be going through this alone. You need to get some support. Considering the circumstances, CPS might be involved with your situation - ask them for counseling resources. They might even be able to pay for counseling for you. If they don't, you might be able to get help through your local domestic violence program or Hospice. You shouldn't go through this alone. I'm sorry your mom isn't able to support you - she may be dealing with her own feelings about her grandchild's death and just not emotionally available for you right now. But your feelings are real, and I imagine all of us who have lost children wish we could exchange places with them.

Hang in there sweetheart - you will always be Adden's mommy..