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holidays

my lyndsey has been in heaven since june 4 2006 and holidays are always a difficult time for me.i miss her so much.there is such a big hole in my heart that nothing can fill.plus this year im angrey im angry because the monster that did this to my daughter got life in the az state hospital were his family is free to see him for the holidays and some how that just doesnt seem fair to me.i guess on the up part im feeling something other then numb although anger isnt much better.i love you lyndsey.and i cant stand you michael lance you donot desreve to see your family

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im sorry for your loss. it must drive you nuts that he isnt rotting away in prison. that just makes me so mad. and i thought it was bad that my babys killer only got 16 to 24 years. justice for your daughter wasnt served and im so sorry that the courts always care more about the killer than the victim. so not fair.

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I'm also sorry for your loss. Holidays are so hard. My daughter, Keara was murdered on April 5, 2006. Her murderer was her boyfriend who is in prison for life without parole. I am glad about that but as you know it doesn't change the fact that we don't have our children anymore. How old was Lyndsey when she died? I hope you will continue to reach out.I think it helps to talk to others who understand.

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I'm so sorry for your loss. It is so hard, especially near the holidays. I think that it helps if you are surrounded by a loving family. My husband and I just have our grandson, and it gets so lonely. We are 76 years old...it has been over twenty-five years, and we still miss our Jill. She would do all of the decorating, wrapping all of the presents, and get so excited. Our children were everything to us, and now we don't even have them. I have quite a few friends, but near the holidays, they have their own families. the killer of our daughter and grandbabies tried to get out three years ago. He even had his own lawyer. Thank goodness, after we wrote a letter, nothing ever came of it. It angers me that my ex-son-in-law had the money to hire a lawyer...but he does get paid in prison for working in the library.,,,which is so wrong. I know what you mean about the killers getting all of the privileges. My thoughts and prayers are with you....Lovingly, Sherry

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lyndsey was 15 years old and i miss her so much the only thing that keeps me saine is that i know i will see her agian someday

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Dear Lyndsey's Mom

First my heart goes out to you. I know that it is very hard especially around holiday's. i understand to well. my brother was murdered on Christmas day. That was almost 27 yrs ago. Recently I received a letter from prosecutor that he died in jail. Didn't make a difference bc my brother is still dead. But, the one comfort I got was that he bragged about killing my brother and the other inmates hurt him and did horrible things to him. Karma is a ***** and one day he will get his. I can't say it will get better or easier. Just remember your angel and be her voice when parole comes up it makes a difference.

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Hi Debra, I just want to say that I am so sorry you have had to carry this pain for so many years and for what happened to your brother...I hope the love you and your brother had has helped you find some joy. 27 years is a long time to have such pain in your heart. My Chris was 27 when his father shot him 8 times 2 weeks before Christmas 2008...27 yrs doesn't seem long enough for the gift of Chris in my life, hard think about the next 27 except to say I'll be closer to heaven and now there is no fear.
Take care Debra...you are in my heart as you face these days again