You need a picture of your daughter online and if you right click on the picture the properties will appear then you copy and past the properties into the avatar url Line....the properties would be for example: http://image1.findagrave.com/photos/2008/129/26705066_121032961870.jpg and that one for example are the properties you see on the left below my name. That picture I found on Laycees find a grave website...