No our marriage has been ok so far but we are grieving very diffrently. My husband is my murdered childs daddy and I'm not sure if that makes a difference but get help if you can, I'm sure your love one wouldn't want to see you in any more pain. I will say a prayer for you guy.
I am not married but have talked to a lot of people at the Parents of Murdered Children's conference and I have heard that some people get closer and some it can create problems and even divorce. I guess it just depends on the people. Hang in there. Hugs, Darien
I split up with someone after 10 years of being together, he was the only guy in Timmy's life, as his dad really was never there for him, and it still hurts to think he just couldn't handle things. It still hurts.