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MICHELLE TONY\\\\\\\\'S-MOM
 IP: 71.144.60.203 May 1, 08 - 7:39 PM |
MY 15 YEAR OLD RAN AWAY!!
HI MOM'S AS I WRITE THIS,REALLY WAITING ON THE POLICE,I BEEN WALKING FOR TWO HOUR'S LOOKING FOR MY SON,HE RAN OUT THE HOUSE BECAUSE HE SAY'S HE TIERD,I ASK HIM TO GO TO GET ME SOMETHING TO EAT,HE GOT MAD,I FUSS,AND HE TOOK OFF,AM I REALLY TURN INTO A MONSTER,I AM SO HEART BROKEN RIGHT NOW,HE SCARE TO COME HOME BECAUSE HE THINK'S I AM GOING TO PUNISH HIM,REALLY I AM,BUT I CAN'T TAKE LOSING ANOTHER CHILD,WHAT TO DO,I WISH HE COMES HOME,WE NEED HELP,THE POLICE SAY'S THEY NEED 24 HOUR'S TO CALL HIM MISSING,JUST TO MUCH,MOM'S PLEASE PRAY THAT MY SON COMES HOME,THIS IS TOO MUCH ON ME,I AM A MESS,I KNOW HE MISSES TONY,I HAVE TO GO,JUST NEED SOME PRAYER'S!! |
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deb (dwaynesmum)
IP: 121.220.49.249 May 1st, 2008 - 7:56 PM |
Re: MY 15 YEAR OLD RAN AWAY!!
oh michelle,u poor thing u must be so worried,i hope by the time u get this post that yr son is back home,michelle are u all getting counciling i think u really need some out side help.u have all been through way to much to deal with it all on yr own.yr boys are tired they really are,remember that they too are trying to be strong for there mom,but inside they too are devastated.boys try to be strong and tough but really we know they arent,u are in a really tough situation and i pray things work out,all u can do is give them all the love u can.my heart is breaking for u all.may tony guide yr son through this very tough time. lots of love deb(dwaynesmum)xxxxxx |
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Cindy Eller
IP: 204.181.51.85 May 1st, 2008 - 9:22 PM |
Re: MY 15 YEAR OLD RAN AWAY!!
Michelle, I pray that your son is home safe now. Hopefully he just needed some cool down time. Please check into family counseling it helped our family to understand alot of the others feelings. Do whatever you need to do to keep the rest of your family intact. I am praying that you have your son in your arms now. So many prayers for you all Cindy Monica's Mom |
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MICHELLE TONY\\\\\\\\\'S-MOM
IP: 71.144.60.203 May 1st, 2008 - 9:52 PM |
Re: MY 15 YEAR OLD RAN AWAY!!
ms.deb,and cindy,yes he's home now,a friend from my church found him and brough him home,thank you jesus,we all talk,lot's of pain,he told me he tried to kill him self lot's of times,and he tried to drown himself in the tub,wow!i did't know all this,both of them are under lot's of pressure,i told him i love him,and i hug him so tight,thank god he came home,he told me he didn't want to come back,but i am glad he is,i will get all of us some help!!!thank you mom's!! |
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JOANN-HUBERT-MOM
IP: 66.97.50.40 May 1st, 2008 - 11:01 PM |
Re: MY 15 YEAR OLD RAN AWAY!!
HI MICHELLE ,SORRY I JUST FOUND OUT SO LATE.I AM HAPPY HE IS HOME .NOW YOUR YOUNG SONS ARE TAKEING TONY DEATH HARD TO ,WE HAVE TO REMEMBER WE HAVE OUTHER CHILDREN,NOT JUST THE ONE WHO WAS MURDERED.I PRAY FOR ALL OF US EACH MORNING,AN NITE PLEASE DO NOT GET MADD AT ME ,GOD SHOW ME THAY NEED ME TOO,I USED TO MORN SO MUCH FOR HUBERT THAT I WAS NOT PAYING THIM NO MIND.IT" WAS LIKE HE WAS MY ONLY CHILD.AN THATS NOT FAIR TO THEM.I SO LOVE TO SEE HUBERT AN I SO MISS HIM EVERY DAY. STILL I MORN THE LOSS OF MY SON .I AM NOT SAYING THAT YOU DID WHAT I DID WITH YOUR SONS.SOME TIMES IT IS SO HARD TO GET UP EACH DAY I HAVE TO FIGHT TO LIVE, AN LOVE MY OUTHER CHILDREN THE SAME AS I DO HUBERT.NO ONE WILL EVERY REPLACE HIM, MICHELLE YOU ARE A STRONG WOMAN . AN I AM PRAYING FOR U AN THE BOYS PLEASE BE STRONG YOU HAVE TO FOR ME...........AN ALL THE OUTHERS MOM PLEASE CALL ME ANYTIME LOVE JOANN HUBERT MOM |
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remember me
IP: 75.142.202.31 May 1st, 2008 - 11:56 PM |
Re: MY 15 YEAR OLD RAN AWAY!!
I'm so glad your son got home safely. Death is so hard on kids, they don't really know how to talk about all the feelings they have inside of them. They have to go to school and take what goes on there, and believe me sometimes it's unbearable. My youngest was just 10 when his brother was murdered. Some of the neighborhood kids said awful things to him. Told him his brother is stupid for getting murdered. Then he had to come home to me, a total wreck, crying all the time, barely able to crawl out of bed most days. Yeah, it's so hard for kids. Take care of yourself and give you son extra hugs. |
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Yvonne
IP: 64.12.116.12 May 2nd, 2008 - 4:54 AM |
Re: MY 15 YEAR OLD RAN AWAY!!
((((((((((((((((((((((((MICHELLE)))))))))))))))) What homicide does to everyone in the family is horrific. My two surviving sons still have major emotional problems. Get that boy into therapy. He is a juvenile, so you can force him to go. Once he is an adult, you are helpless. The teenage years are so fragile, even without having to deal with a sibling being murdered. My five year old granddaughter has had children say mean things to her at school, and has came home very upset several times. This world can be so very cruel. I am thinking about you, and your family, Love, Yvonne (Josh Underwood's mom) |
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Bette
IP: 216.237.180.2 May 2nd, 2008 - 8:32 AM |
Re: MY 15 YEAR OLD RAN AWAY!!
I'm so glad he came home, Michelle. It is so hard on our children's siblings, i see what my boys are going thru, especially my oldest, he is in so much pain and heartbroken, he had to ID his baby brother laying in the street, and his friend also died 2 days later, he was with Timmy when it happened, well we all think he is the reason this happened in the first place and that's another reason why my oldest is going thru so much. So many times I'd be at work and he would call me crying and tell me he wants to die, I'd call friends up and ask them to go sit with him and I'm at work feeling helpless. My boys also do not want to go seek help, I guess that makes them look like they are weak. I don't know, but I try like you to comfort as much as you can, stay strong, let him know it's ok to cry and scream or whatever but that you need him too and together you can hold each other together. I keep all you moms in my prayers, always. Luv Bette Timmy's mom |
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MICHELLE TONY\\\\\\\\\\'S-MOM
IP: 70.250.219.12 May 2nd, 2008 - 12:02 PM |
Re: MY 15 YEAR OLD RAN AWAY!!
THANK YOU MOM'S FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT AND PRAYER'S,YES PATRICK IS HOME NOW,HE CRIED ALL NIGHT,HE TOLD ME HE TRIED TO KILL HIMSELF MANY TIMES,HE SAID HE WATCHES ME STRUGGLE,AND ME SO DEPRESSED,AND THAT HE MISSES HIS BROTHER,MOM'S I AM GOING TO GET ALL OF US SOME HELP THIS IS SO HARD TO BARE,I HATE TO SEE MY SON'S STRUGGLE EACH DAY,I AM A MESS ALSO,I WAS SO WORRY ABOUT MY SON LAST NIGHT,I TOLD HIM NEVER TO DO THAT AGAIN,I JUST LOSS ONE ,CAN'T BARE TO GO THROUGH IT AGAIN,TONY BIRTHDAY IS ALMOST HERE,AND HIS BROTHER'S ARE SO SAD,I AM ALWAY'S DOWN,NOW THIS TRIAL IS THE WEEK OF MY BABY BIRTHDAY,LORD HELP ME THROUGH!!!HUG'S-MOM'S! |
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Jackie ( Tommy's Momma )
IP: 204.73.103.253 May 2nd, 2008 - 12:28 PM |
Re: MY 15 YEAR OLD RAN AWAY!!
Michelle,God Bless you and your son's, just remain strong and Please talk to them about going as a family to get help with your grief, help them while they are still young this kind of trauma will play out the rest of their lives if you all don't get help now and life as we know is so delicate and precious, Tony wants his brothers safe and happy, Please talk to some one about your son's mental health....Love and prayers ...Jackie Tommy's momma |
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Vickie /Andre's mom
IP: 12.218.101.23 May 2nd, 2008 - 2:47 PM |
Re: MY 15 YEAR OLD RAN AWAY!!
Michelle,I am so sorry that you and your children are going through this.I didn't see this post yesterday because I was going through the exact same thing with my 14 year old son.Every time I say anything to him he runs away & he says he wishes he was dead.He too is angry, hurt & tired of seeing me upset.I took him to a counsler and he got even worse because he did want to go and then the counsler wanted to talk about everything under the sun except his brother being murdered.The jerk said my son had to be angry for more reasons than his brother being murdered.Like that wasn't enough.My son also came back home (thank you JESUS).I just don't know what to do.I guess I need to find someone different none of my kids want to see this guy agian.Believe me I know exactly how you feel and you and all three of your sweet boys are in my prayers!!!I am so glad your son is home and that he is talking to you so you can help him.Stay strong!!Many,many,many hugs & prayers!!!! |
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