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Frances Jr's mom
 IP: 66.214.69.63 Apr 9, 08 - 1:43 PM |
I don't feel I have the right.....
Somedays I feel as if I have no right to complain...let me explain... I have lost my child so have many of you...I have made it through court...some of you will never go to court because you don't know who took your child...The murderer is sitting in prison for the rest of his miserable life...some of you, the murderer got 2-3 years for taking your child... I have 3 beautiful and wonderful grandchildren who remind me of my love...some of you this was your only child or so young you have no grandchildren... I get up out of bed if for no other reason but out of anger...some of you this is not possible...and yet hear I sit feeling sorry for myself because all I can think of, or want right now is to have a big bear hug from my Jr.... I miss him so much, and yet I have so much to be thankful for, and yet I am not...how selfish of me...Not feeling myself today am very sad and wanted to know if anyone out there can tell me when my heart is going to stop hurting, and when I am going to stop crying? I can't believe how much I miss my beloved son and all his sillyness... Hugs and prayers Frances Jr's mom |
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deb
IP: 121.220.49.249 Apr 10th, 2008 - 3:29 AM |
Re: I don't feel I have the right.....
Dear Frances,please never feel like u dont deserve to feel the same pain as the rest of us,because its not about what they left behind or didnt leave behind or any thing else for that matter,its the fact he is gone,murdered never coming back,and he didnt deserve that,just like all of us,its the same.we had our children murdered,ripped from our lives,never to return,thats what makes us all the same...we just want our babies back,nothing else matters,so dont think u shouldn't complain or that because we all are going through the same thing.yes its true u have grandchildren,yes the murderer is in jail for along time,but the bottom line is u want yr boy back...lots of love to u and yr family love Deb (dwaynesmum) xoxox |
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Cindy Eller
IP: 204.181.51.85 Apr 10th, 2008 - 5:09 AM |
Re: I don't feel I have the right.....
Every Mom on this website has a right to greive for their child and in any manner they choose. Yes I feel blessed that the monster that killed my daughter killed himself. Yes I have my two Grandchildren that have their Mommies beautiful brown eyes BUT we all have lost a child. This gives us the same pain as others but also gives us the compassion to know what we have that others do not thanks to the Murderers. I pray extra hard for those who have less than I but I also have to live with my grandchildren needing to talk about what they saw and I would not wish that pain on anyone to KNOW what the monster did to your child and to see and feel the pain he has inflicted on these beautiful children, reliving your childs murder every single time they need to talk. That is so VERY hard to handle. I am sorry I got to rambling but my point is we all hurt and we all have a right to handle this the best way we know how. So you have EVERY right to be prayed for and to be sent love just like the rest of the MOMs here and I am sure they all will say the same thing. Extra Prayers and Love Cindy Monica's Mom |
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remember me
IP: 75.142.202.31 Apr 10th, 2008 - 1:36 PM |
Re: I don't feel I have the right.....
Sweetie you are a grieving mom, feeling the feelings that come with this horrible experience. It sucks big time! No matter the jail time or whatever you lost your child, a part of you. Allow yourself some latitude, it's ok to feel what ever you feel. |
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Darien-Keara\\\'s Mom
IP: 4.88.118.93 Apr 11th, 2008 - 8:14 PM |
Re: I don't feel I have the right.....
Please don't be hard on yourself. Every parent that loses a child has the right to grieve. I have 3 other children,and grandchildren but it doesn't make me feel better about losing Keara to murder. Her killer is also in prison for life but that doesn't give me comfort because she is dead and I miss her so much. I love my children and grandchildren but they don't replace Keara. All of us are suffering and who knows when or how we will feel better. Give yourself a big hug. |
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TERRYCEDRIC'S}MOM
IP: 69.153.221.50 Apr 12th, 2008 - 2:11 PM |
Re: I don't feel I have the right.....
DEAR FRANCES I LOVE YOU AND LET ME SAY TO YOU YES THE KILLER OF MY ONLY SON CEDRIC IS STILL OUT THERE AND NO I DON'T HAVE ANY GRANDKIDS BY MY SON AND YES I WISH I DID. BUT I AM VERY HAPPY FOR ALL OF YOU THAT DO HAVE GRANDKIDS .BUT DO YOU KNOW WHAT GOD GAVE US ALL? HE GAVE US OUR ANGELS THAT ALWAYS MADE US SMILE AND FEEL HAPPY AND THAT IN IT'S SELF IS A BLESSING. I KNOW EVEN WHEN MY SON CEDRIC WOULD DO SOMETHING TO MAKE ME MAD AT HIM WISH I COULDN'T STAY MAD FOR LONG BECAUSE HE WOULD SAY SOMETHING ARE MAKE SILLY FACE'S TO MAKE ME SMILE AND EVEN NOW WHEN I THINK OF HIM I STILL SMILE AND ON THEM DAYS THAT I CAN'T GET OUT OF BAD AND I'M CRYING I STILL THINK OF THE GOOD DAYS AND GET THAT BIG SMILE AND THAT SOMETHING THAT THE ONES THAT TOOK OUR BABIES AWAY FROM US COULD NEVER TAKE AWAY. SO YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO HAVE YOUR BAD AND GOOD DAY'S JUST LIKE THE REST OF US AND WE ALL FEEL HAPPY TO KNOW THAT THE PERSON THAT MURDERED YOUR ANGEL IS IN JAIL AND TO BE REAL I KNOW GOD WE DEAL WITH ALL OF THE ONES THAT ARE WALKING THE STREET LIKE THEY DID NOTHING WRONG BECAUSE EVEN IF THE POLICE DON'T GET THEM GOD IS GIVEN THEM A CHANCE TO TURN THEM SELF'S IN AND IF THEY DON'T THEY WILL PAY EVEN MORE THEN THE ONE'S THAT ARE IN JAIL AND WHEN IT'S THERE TIME TO MET UP WITH GOD OUR FATHER THEY ALL WILL PAY. MY PRAYER ARE WITH YOU AND GIVE YOUR GRANDBABIES A HUGE FROM TERRY {CEDRIC'S}MOM GOD BLESS YOU MY SISTER |
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