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Frances,,,Jr's mom
 IP: 66.214.69.63 Mar 26, 08 - 2:25 PM |
Another BAD day!!!
Went to grief counseling today and as I sat there I started telling Nancy (that's her name) how people keep telling me how the family are suffering also because they don't have there son, he is in prison, and they worry about what is happening to him... BIG DEAL!! Sorry just a little angry today, I started telling her how if they wanted to they could drive to the prison where he is and see him, see his face, see his eyes, hear his laughter, hear his voice say MOM, I would drive around the world if that was possible, just to see my son's face, hear his laughter, hear him call me Mom,,, I don't care if they are suffering, they raised a ******* and never taught him about how precious life is, so to hell with them... I see them in town with there heads held high, chins out chest out and have heard that they tell people "well our son was a man and he handled it like a man" Bull, a man doesn't take another life, a man doesn't pull out a gun and shoot another human being who doesn't have a weapon, or shoots him in the back of the head like a coward, THAT IS NOT A MAN!! I am so sorry that I am so angry today, I hate these mixed up emotions one moment mad, the next crying and sobbing, the next mad,,, I feel crazy... Please tell me if any of you other mothers feel this angry or feel crazy...I just need to know it is okay and that I am not alone, sometimes I feel so alone, no one understands... Again sorry just another bad day Prayers and hugs Frances Jr's mom |
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Vickie /Andre\'s mom
IP: 12.218.106.240 Mar 26th, 2008 - 3:36 PM |
Re: Another BAD day!!!
Frances, you are so not alone with how you are feeling I am sure we all feel that way about our children and the b*****ds that murdered them.I know I have the same mood swings that you speak of! I feel you are rigth to feel like you do about that murder and his family you have no need to feel guilty about how they feel or what they go through. You are 100% right about them and the fact they should be happy that they can see thier son.I am mad for you. I don't know who killed my son but believe me I have no sympathy for his family and hope that when he is caught he will get the death penilty.After all that is the sentence he gave my son.So, if that hurts his family well sorry to bad! |
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Bette
IP: 216.237.180.2 Mar 26th, 2008 - 3:41 PM |
Re: Another BAD day!!!
I also don't know who killed my son, and the other guy he was with. My son was 15, shot in the back of his head execution style. I feel the same, what I'd give to see that smile and his big blue eyes and hear his voice again. You have every right to be angry, no one deserves to die this way and no one but God has the right to take another human's life. Remember God's wrath is greater than man's. I will keep you in my prayers. Bette Timmy's mom |
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Cindy Eller
IP: 204.181.51.85 Mar 26th, 2008 - 4:18 PM |
Re: Another BAD day!!!
You are among many. I to feel like a roller coaster but his sister is the one who gets to me. He chose to shoot my daughter 3 times twice in the face, he chose to point the gun at my grandchildren and tell them he was going to kill them, BUT GOD intercepted and he did not have time to shoot the kids then himself the police arrived to soon he heard them and then shot himself. ALL his choices but yet his sister still says don't you want to know the truth?? My brother did not do it. Your daughter was nothing but a slut. Anything that can be hurtful she says, after 6 letters of threat and hints of watching us I had to contact the police and have them tell her no contact. We cannot stoop to their level though they can and will say anything to make themselves look better. There is no better!!They all will face the lord and master one day, then let them come up with excuses. We are all behind you we all will be praying for you to have the strength to fight the devil. Keep strong remember they are NOT worth us taking time away from our freinds and loved ones to worry over them. I know it is hard but we all know our children are with God and their child will see eternal flames. Sending love and prayers Cindy Monica's Mom |
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deb (dwaynesmum)
IP: 121.220.49.249 Mar 27th, 2008 - 1:00 AM |
Re: Another BAD day!!!
Dear Frances,believe me i hate my sons murderer and his stinking family,they are nothing but scum and they raised scum and they will continue to raise scum,i hate them with a passion as much as i hate the animal himself,i hope when they go to visit IT in jail they find him hanging from the ceiling or murdered by another inmate,that would be justice,to let them feel the pain and heart break,that we feel.sorry for the anger but I HATE THEM.dont let anyone ever tell u to feel sorry for the family because scum like that dont deserve to live on this planet the world would be a much better place without the scum and there scumbag children that go around murdering our kids.love to u and yr family DEB XOXOXO |
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michelle (Brandon Fluet's mom)
IP: 204.210.212.239 Mar 28th, 2008 - 7:19 AM |
Re: Another BAD day!!!
Sweet Frances YOU ARE NOT ALONE MY DEAR!!! and you have EVERY RIGHT TO HATE THE SON OF A B**** who took Jr. from you. You also have every right to hate this animal's family who claim that their son is a Man. He is NOT A REAL MAN!!! a real man walks away from a violent situation and does not use a weapon against an unarmed inocent victim. I know all too well the anger and hate your feeling because I hate and am discusted at Brandon's murderer and his entire family. I want nothing more than to see ALL of them suffer the worst kind of pain physically, emotionally, financially and in every other way for the rest of their pathetic lives. All I can say to you my dear friend Frances is that your not alone in you feeling of rage, anger, and feelings of being crazy. Don't ever feel the need to apologize for being honest enough with your feelings to say exactly how you feel, because we are ALL feeling the same rage, discust and anger at our children's murderers and their familys. I applaud you for your complete and total honesty. There are so many days when I too feel as though I'm going crazy and where I am just about to loose it. These are normal and healthy feelings for us to be dealing with. We just have to remember that even though it's normal we can't let it take over. Just remember that Jr's killer and the so called people who try to justify what he did will one day GET WHAT THEY DESERVE!!! even if it's not in this life time...I know without a doubt that they will all suffer for an eternity burning in Hell for the life they took and the pain and suffering they caused to their victims family and friends. Stay strong Frances and know that I am right there with you. All my love, prayers, and support Michelle (Brandon Fluet's mom) |
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remember me
IP: 75.142.202.31 Mar 28th, 2008 - 12:51 PM |
Re: Another BAD day!!!
Dear Frances, In a few days it will be the third anniversary of my son's murder. Murder, such an ugly word. Such an ugly deed. I have raged against the killer and his family. They are lucky that I live in another state than them. If I were where they are it would be Hatfield's and McCoys. The punk b!!!! who took your child's life is a coward, as is his family. If my child had done such a thing I would be falling over myself apologizing and offering help to the victims family. You are very normal. I'm so sorry you have to go thru this, it's so hard. |
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Ginger
IP: 209.130.194.189 Mar 28th, 2008 - 10:54 PM |
Re: Another BAD day!!!
I am new to this site, but I just wanted you to know that I am so sorry you are hurting so much!!!My son was murdered 3 yrs. ago and the crap that I get from family and some friends, makes me crazy!! They have no idea what it is like to have your child murdered but they say things like.."You're just not normal!! You shouldn't still cry and get depressed over Tony's death..after all, He is in Heaven!! Yes, he is, thanks be to God...but it doesn't take the pain away!! Yes, I am so emotional at times that Im afraid Im going crazy..And so I cry out to God for help..and I will pray for you also.. |
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Darien-Keara\'s Mom
IP: 4.88.118.217 Mar 29th, 2008 - 11:45 PM |
Re: Another BAD day!!!
HI Francis. I feel the pain you are feeling and I too have wished that my daughter 's murdered will be subjected to every kind of torture that he can experience. He brutally nurdered Keara and showed no remorse. I also am so angry at the legal sytem who continuied to release him back into society for the many other crimes he committed including serious assaults on other females. I probably have been more angry at them than him if that makes any sense. Keara will have been dead 2 years on April 5th. I have tried to focus my energy on just trying to continue with life without Keara. He already has taken so much from me I don't want him to take anymore. At first I felt the same way about his fgamily as you do but I also realise that our children don't belong to us. No matter how much we try to protect and help them they will sometimes do what they want. Keara's murder was domestic violence and I have worked in that field for almost 20 years. No matter what I did or said to convince Keara to leave him she was determined to stay believing his lies and manipulation of her. I have finally been able to come to the realization that his family could very well be suffering too. I can't imagine the guilt that might be felt if one of my children had killed another human being. I am teaching anger management and conflict resolution to court ordered clients. I also teach it in several schools to kids of different ages in some of the schools. I am on the NC Coalition Against domestic violence and do everything I can to help save lives. I knoe Keara would want me to do this and it is the only thing that gives meaning to my life.Keara is never out of my heart or mind and I miss her every day. I don't know how to go on but I do and I hope someday the awful pain will diminish. I am so grateful for you and every other Mom on this site. So many people have no clue how hard this is and how much time it takes to heal. I too have gotten so tired of hearing all the platitudes and how I should be over this by now. I have gotten so cautious about who to talk to. If I ever can be of help please feel free to email me directly. I also could call you if you would like. This really sucks!! Darien, Keara's Mom |
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Ramona----Alex's mom
IP: 66.162.42.138 Mar 31st, 2008 - 2:41 PM |
Re: Another BAD day!!!
Frances-Jr\'s mom; This is my first time on this website, please know that you are not alone in your feelings,On April 15th it will be 11 years that my only son was taken away from us. The families from the guys that took his life blamed our son for ruining thier families life. I have nothing but hate and anger for all of them. I wish that we did'nt have to go through all of this pain and only God knows why our Loived ones were chosen to live in his paradise so soon, I would give anything to see,hear,smell him, the families of these B*****d's deserve to feel the pain of agony and depression that we feel.They have no right to feel any joy when it comes to the animal's that took away our LOVED ONE'S so what if thier suffering, they don't know what the meaning of suffering is, especially when they can still see and talk to them and know that thier loved one's are being well cared for and that they can get a college degree while locked up now that's really suffering. I will pray for you and your family. I still feel overwhelmed even after 11 year's it still feels fresh and never let anyone tell you not to show your feelings no matter what they are, only a mother know's how she truly feels. |
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