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Michele (Raymund Mom)
 IP: 97.85.130.113 Mar 25, 08 - 5:13 AM |
6 months
hello to all the moms,, today is 6 months without my son Raymund I seem to relive that day over and over just wondering if my son suffered before he was shot,,I miss him so much my life seems so empty without him,, I am still going through the holidays without him and this is a hard on me cause my dad is 91 and blind and my dad keeps calling for his grandson even though i told him Raymund was killed my dad does not remember me telling him,,I cry for my son as he was my help..Most of my family do not help me with my dad but my nephew Shawn is there for me and he helps me and gives me a break from time to time,,I just go through the motions and sometimes i feel like a zombie ..Keep me in your prayers.... |
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Cindy Eller
IP: 204.181.51.85 Mar 25th, 2008 - 8:49 AM |
Re: 6 months
Michele, Taking care of a loved one unable to care for themselves is not only physically but emotionally draining and you are also mourning for your child it is understandable that you feel like a zombie. Somehow you need to take some YOU time because if you do not take care of yourself you will not be able to take care of your dad. Let your family know there needs to be a system set up that everyone takes their share of time that you need a break. Prayers that you will get you time and that Raymunds love will surround you and help you through this. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Much Love Cindy Monica's Mom |
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michelle (Brandon Fluet's mom)
IP: 64.12.116.12 Mar 25th, 2008 - 9:57 AM |
Re: 6 months
Dear sweet Michele I can't even begin to imagine how difficult this is for you. It took me almost a year to begin to function and take care of myself after the murder of my son. Let alone be responsible to take care of someone else. You are an incredible, brave, and strong woman to do what your doing with little to no help at all from anyone. I admire and respect you and your courage and strength. I'm sure Raymund is so proud of you and he is the one not only standing beside you, but holding you up. God will give you all that you need...lean on and rely on Him and His strength. I pray that He will put people in your path and place them there to help, support, and strengthen you to not only care for your dad, but to allow you to grive and continue to heal and recover over the loss of your precious Raymund. All my love michelle (Brandon Fluet's mom) |
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Vickie /Andre's mom
IP: 12.218.106.240 Mar 25th, 2008 - 1:47 PM |
Re: 6 months
Michele, my sons 6 months will be on April 6 th so we are just about in the same place as far as that goes and I know how you feel.I am trying to take care of my young children and still be a good mom but I can't even take care of myself right now. You must be a very strong women to do what you are doing.I can't imagine.If you can't get any help from your family try to seek nursing help to come to your home if only to give you just a little help or time off.I don't know your dad current health but hospice is wonderful.I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers! |
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