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Beverly D. Leah\\\'s mom
 IP: 98.160.159.109 Feb 16, 08 - 1:58 AM |
Well..I guess if we don't do it in a reasonable time, God does it for us
I was told by my landlord last Sat that he is selling, I cant buy the house, sooo....I actually have to face PACKING Leah's room, and throwing things away. I cried just thinking about not being in this house anymore. The last conversation I had w Her was right here..all her belongings.etc. Tommorrow is the big day. I am trying to get ready for it, because im sure it will be hard. |
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Cindy Eller
IP: 204.181.51.85 Feb 16th, 2008 - 6:03 AM |
Re: Well..I guess if we don't do it in a reasonable time, God does it for us
Beverly, It will be 5 years in April and I still shake going through my daughters things I can only last about 30 minutes before I am a basket case. My heart goes out to you. Please remember how many people are here for you praying and holding you in their hearts. Much Love Monica's Mom Cindy |
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Vickie Springer/Andre\'s mom
IP: 12.218.106.240 Feb 16th, 2008 - 9:24 AM |
Re: Well..I guess if we don't do it in a reasonable time, God does it for us
Beverly,my heart goes out to you.my son was killed one block away from our home and three days later someone was shooting right beside my house.When we called the police they said sinse no one was hurt they'ed be there in two hours, they came in three.They picked up 5 shell casings and put them in thier pocket they said it probably had nothing to do with what happened to my son & went on thier way.So,I packed up my other kids and went to my mother in laws I wasn't going to loose another child! Two days after my sons funeral we moved three hours away so I never re-entered his room and now feel robbed of that although I am sure it would be painful I am sure that time has meant a great deal to you!My heart and prayers are with you!You may move but no one will ever take her room from your heart!GOD be with you! |
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Frances/ Ruben's mom
IP: 66.214.69.63 Feb 16th, 2008 - 10:21 AM |
Re: Well..I guess if we don't do it in a reasonable time, God does it for us
It is going to be hard, just stay level headed and cry adn keep breathing, Ruben and his girl friend (the mother of his children) had split up like they did every couple of months, when they would get back together she would be pregnant, anyway he was living at my house in his old room. So when he was killed all his clothes, jackets and shoes were here. In fact we didn't get home from the hospital that night until 4:30 in the morning of the 22nd, because I couldn't leave him, I couldn't be with him (because they said his body was evidence) but I sat there waiting for the coroner to come from Santa Barbara to take him, when me and Ruben Sr. had layed down to hold each other and cry, there was a pound at the door, (just like jr would do when he forgot his key) I yelled to Ruben Sr. you see it was a mistake. when I got to the door it was 5 detectives to search his room for any evidence that would help them find the killer. Off track sorry, So 1 week ago I was looking for my birth certificate for a job I am applying for I opened the safe and on top was Jr's immunization card, birth cert. his baptism record, first communion, first confession all these items and a bunch of pic's when he was a fat teenager where he had held the camera about 12 inches from his face and taken pix's. I broke down so bad I couldn't breath I just held these items and cried. So I decided I am already in melt down mode so I went to his room and (I had bought a large blue ben) I took all his pants, undies, socks, and his shoes (even the ones that he was wearing the night he was killed which still have his blood on them) his old tee shirts that he would work on cars with that even after you wash them they are full of oil, his hair clippers, his tooth brush, his cologne, his foot powder, and a dried up rose which was from his funeral and I put it in this ben, put the lid and placed it at the back of his closet. pushing this ben in to the back of the closet I felt so empty and like I was never going to see him walk through the door and call out to me like he always did. I know what you have to do is hard, but you hang in there and remember things that were good and how much she loved you and how much you loved your child. |
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joann hubert mom
IP: 69.31.156.48 Feb 16th, 2008 - 10:42 AM |
Re: Well..I guess if we don't do it in a reasonable time, God does it for us
YOU CAN DO IT BEVERLY JUST TAKE YOUR TIME I HAD TO GO THRU HUBERT THINGS TO FIND SOMETHING IT WAS HARD TO DO BUT I MADE IT THRU.SAVE SOME OF HIS THINGS FOR HIS LITTER BROTHER STILL HARD TO COME HOME SOMETIMES.MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU LOVE JOANN HUBERT MOM |
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Bette
IP: 64.12.116.12 Feb 17th, 2008 - 9:14 AM |
Re: Well..I guess if we don't do it in a reasonable time, God does it for us
I surely do understand how you must feel. It's been 7 months when my son was killed and I can't even open his dresser drawers. His shirts hanging in the closet, my one son started wearing some of his shirts and he asked me if i minded. I said no, I think it's great and an honor that you do. It was nice to see one of Timmy's favorit shirts on my other son. Like he was still here. So I know how you feel, I did put a few of his things together, he had a sliver "T" ring and a cross with chain, his school ID's I put them in a pretty box and then inside a wood box he made years ago. Safe and sound, but I couldn't fathom havig to go thru his clothes and such. Stay strong, my prayers are with you |
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