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Bette
 IP: 216.237.180.2 Oct 24, 07 - 1:57 PM |
Is it me?
or does anyone else get treated differenty now? I mean I've been subjected to so many mean things especially at work. Not the people I work with, but by the mgt. like HR people. When I first came back to work they moved me from working in the back to the receptionist position. Still maintaining the two guys I work for, plus extra duties. I was late maybe 4 times since they moved me up here, about 3 months now. First time I was sick but still managed to make it in, one time the detective called me and held me up, this time I over slept because God I can sleep. I'm up 4-5 times a night Ijust keep waking up and I forgot to set my alarm so I was 10 mins. late and they make a big deal out of it how I'm disrupting business and they can't have this anymore and now they want to change my hours. It's bad enough on the first day I cam back to work they moved me up here 2 weeks after Timmy was murdered. I cried all day, how could they do this to me, why??? Now this. I don't understand how some people can be so cruel. I'm lucky I'm functioning right now, there are days I just don't even want to get out of bed, I cry every night, every single night and I still make it to work, I still do a good job, I get my work done, I help out when others need help. I don't get it, is it me or has this happened to anyone else? Why is this. Like i'm not going thru enough pain and worry that I have to worry about my job too? Bette Timmys mom |
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TERRY{CEDRIC'S}MOM
IP: 69.153.221.50 Oct 24th, 2007 - 8:08 PM |
Re: Is it me?
Hello Bette I'm sorry this is happen to you I am a stay at home mom so I haven't had this happen to me but I can tell you that I have a man in my life that is not helpful at all and have no understanding so if you ask me I would say that if you can't get the people you love to stop being cruel them I put notthing pass anyone else. This is a cruel and heartless world and the only people that will and can understand how you feel is someone that has lost an Angel I know how you feel and so do the other moms on this site it's so hard and lonly when you loss a child,to have other's be so evil how do they sleep at night. all I can say is hold on,pray God will answer maybe not as fast as we would like him to but he will I will keep you in my prayers, hope you walk in to work and have a very good and bless day. I love you my sister God Bless you.Terry{Cedric's}MOM PS. my son use to alway's tell me mama never let them see you crying because they will think your week and walk all over you hold your head up this is a evil world and I know God is not happy with how other's treat good people.So I say to you hold your head up and never let them see you cry because they are heartless on your job and I pray they never feel the pain of the loss of a child. we love you my sister |
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joann hubert mom
IP: 69.31.155.253 Oct 24th, 2007 - 8:52 PM |
Re: Is it me?
hi bette i 2 have been treated differenty i quit that gob now i have a new one.some people dont have a qlue what going on in our life now my son was murdered in july 27 2007 his nameis hubert. |
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deb(dwaynes mum)
IP: 121.219.2.47 Oct 24th, 2007 - 10:19 PM |
Re: Is it me?
hi bette,even in australia its the same,to be honest nobody really cares,its business as usual,they say how sorry they are when it first happened and i truly believe that they are sorry for what has happened,but in there eyes its time to move on,they dont understand that for us we will never move on EVER,thats why m.o.m.s. is so important to us all because every one here knows,understands that life as we knew it is over,and unless it has happened to them they will never understand,just hang in there do your best thats all u can ask of yourself.my prayers are with you always Deb(dwaynesmum) |
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Bette
IP: 216.237.180.2 Oct 25th, 2007 - 10:24 AM |
Re: Is it me?
Thanks Moms. It's true people don't understand. I would never wish anything like this on my worse enemy. Except maybe the monster who did this. I'll never forgive. I know I need to stay strong. Cedric's mom you son is so right, how true that is. It's a cruel world and the feed on the weak. I've first hand experience, i just don't understand how bad people keep getting away with doing bad things and good people always have bad things happen. Maybe one day God will fill me in on this. God Bless you all,you are all true Angels. |
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Kasi's Mama
IP: 151.213.159.238 Oct 25th, 2007 - 4:29 PM |
Re: Is it me?
Hi Bette, I'm so sorry for all you are living with. I have been treated the way you are now, and really I think that sometimes, because they don't know how to deal with "us" they try to just push us out of their lives. Then they won't have to feel anything at all. When people know us and know that murder has touched our lives and could possibly touch them some day too, it makes them feel vulnerable. Even friends and family. I don't think they (meaning the people in our lives) intentionally treat us that way. But if we are out of sight then the horror of it all won't be there everyday for them. I personally wasn't able to maintain a job for years after Kasi's death. But today I have a "normal" life with a really good job, a wonderful husband of 17 years and the Lord has blessed me with two more children. Life can be full again. No, the pain has NEVER left me, but I have learned to keep going and I know that is what Kasi would have me do. The Lord is my strength. I will continue to pray daily for all of you moms. And Betty, hold your head up!!!! |
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Tracey (Terrell's MOM)
IP: 68.238.27.228 Oct 27th, 2007 - 11:10 PM |
Re: Is it me?
Hi Bette: No, it's not you..it's this evil world we live in. Satan uses people to break us because although our hearts are broken, we are still standing. What kind of good business practice is it to put a grieving mother up front as a receptionist. I give you credit for being able to go back to work so soon after Timmy's murder. I was fired from the job I had after Terrell was killed because I couldn't work a fulltime schedule and it was the best thing that could have happened to me. Another MOM once wrote that her doctor diagnosed her with post-tramatic stress and that he said she would qualify for disability. I know you need a paycheck but maybe you should look into receiving disability. Remember what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger Hang in there and God Bless Tracey (Terrell's MOM |
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