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michelle brown
 IP: 70.245.71.227 Oct 15, 07 - 11:59 AM |
MY 15 YEAR OLD SON IS SCARED!!!
HELLO MOM'S,I HAVE BEEN VERY BUSY WORKING AND BEEN THERE FOR MY 2 OTHER BOY'S,SAT.OCT 13,WAS PATRICK BIRTHDAY HE TURN 15,BUT ALL HE TALK'S ABOUT IS HE LOSS TONY AT 15,NOW HE IS 15,AND SCARED THAT HE IS GOING TO DIE,I TOLD HIM SON I KNOW IT IS HARD THAT WE LOSS TONY AT 15,BUT YOU AND YOUR BROTHER WILL BE OK,HE SAY HIS BIRTHDAY WAS BORNING,AND SAD BECAUSE HE DIDN'T HAVE TONY WITH HIM,THIS IS SO HARD FOR ME AS A MOTHER ALSO,I TOOK HIM TO THE SHOW,BROUGHT HIM GIFT'S,CAKE & ICECREAM,HE WAS STILL SAD,I WAS TOO BUT NOT LETTING MY SELF SHOW IT ,NOT AROUND HIM AND HIS BABY BROTHER,MOM'S MY SON'S MISS THERE BROTHER SO MUCH,NOW THE HOILDAY'S ARE ALMOST HERE,IT IS NOT GETTING EASY,IT'S SEEM LIKE IT HAS GOT EVEN HARDER,NOW MY OLDEST NOW THINK'S HE IS GOING TO DIED NEXT,MOM'S IS THIS NIGHT MARE GOING TO END!!LOVE YOU ALL-TONY'S MOM |
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Bette
IP: 216.237.180.2 Oct 15th, 2007 - 1:51 PM |
Re: MY 15 YEAR OLD SON IS SCARED!!!
Hi Michelle, Boy I know what you mean. My oldest is saying things like this. It's scary for kids. Even older ones, my son is 21. He has many problems, now this on top and he id'd his brother and friend so he has nightmares and always crying all the time. I know about the holidays too. My Timmy was a New Year's Eve baby, and my middle guy is Christmas Day, my b/d is on 12/9 so December is not going to be easy. Not at all. Just stay strong, I know it's hard, it feels like it's not getting any easier for me either, was 3 months on the 13th, feels like forever, but then just yesterday. I can't describe it, I cry all the time, all day on weekends. Went to cemetary and cried and fixed it up put some Halloween things there cause he loved Halloween, and all the holidays, then birthday. Stay strong I know it's hard. Bette Timmy's mom |
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Beverly Dessormeau
IP: 72.193.48.43 Oct 15th, 2007 - 3:02 PM |
Re: MY 15 YEAR OLD SON IS SCARED!!!
Oh, Michelle, we should seriously talk some day, my eldest now is 15, and right where Leah was at the age of her attack. Saturday it will be TWO years since my baby was whole. October is horrible for us!! We wathced family movies, and her memorial service, and just got all choked up. My heart is with you. Beverly, Leah's mom |
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angela williams
IP: 72.193.186.85 Oct 16th, 2007 - 12:25 AM |
Re: MY 15 YEAR OLD SON IS SCARED!!!
Dear Michelle, I read your story and I felt compelled to write you.I remind my kids quite often that God needed their sister Shannon with him sooner and only GOD decides when we leave this earth.I remind them how much they are loved and only GOD can carry us through.My youngest sleeps with the stars on the the walls and ceiling so that he feels like he is in Heaven with his sister,if that what brings him comfort then I know he will be o.k. The holidays I am dreading and Christmas would be Shannon's 20 th birthday.We will hold her close and get through it somehow.Take care of yourself. Angela |
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remember me
IP: 71.84.235.100 Oct 17th, 2007 - 1:40 PM |
Re: MY 15 YEAR OLD SON IS SCARED!!!
Dear Michelle, My son died in 2005. At that time my youngest child was 10. He was terrified something bad would happen to him or another one of us. He was very sad, stayed home after school, cried himself to sleep at night. I wish these monsters who murder our children had to take all of our pain and carry it for life. Thankfully now, 2 1/2 years later my now 12 year old is doing better. We still cry together, just not every moment of every day like we did then. This will be our third holiday season, sad, but you know we have to roll on, like it or not. It's going to be hard, but you are strong and will handle it. You and your family are in my prayers. |
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