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michele
 IP: 71.97.129.97 Nov 29, 06 - 2:53 PM |
letting go of guilt
i often read posts on this site about the guilt mothers of murdered children feel and i wanted to address this issue. if i had to guess, i would immagine every one of us has felt as if it was our fault that our child died. i carried that huge burdon of guilt for the longest time and it wasnt until i learned to let the guilt go that i started to heal. I was a good mother to my sons and i did not kill them. once i accepted that truth, the healing process truely began. please stop beating yourselves up with all of the what ifs and whys. some things just do not make sense in this crazy world of ours. god bless you all with the peace of knowing that our children are being loved and protected by their Father in heaven. |
Michelle Simon
IP: 65.196.101.100 Nov 29th, 2006 - 3:53 PM |
Re: letting go of guilt
Well said Michele. You should probably post this every day. Some day I can let go the guilt, and other days I am torn up with it and the what ifs. I know for sure Myles would not want his Mommy living with this guilt. |
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Lorre
IP: 207.200.116.70 Nov 29th, 2006 - 4:26 PM |
Re: letting go of guilt
You are so right Michele, We DID NOT kill our children. We did not knowingly put them or encourage them to be in any position that compromised their well being. We are guilty of nothing. I believe that it is easier to feel guilty than to try and wrap our minds around the evil that took our children from us. How can we understand something that we simply are not capable of? We cannot. I know that any MOM here would gladly have taken on whatever evil went after her child if given the opportnity. My parents died trying to protect Taelor and Josie. Evil has its own agenda, and it is merciless. Thankfully our Lord is merciful and loves our children as much as (if not more) than we do because they were his first, as are we. Our babies are safe in Heaven and you are right, they would not want us to feel any guilt for something we never could have anticipated. Hugs to my MOMS Love, Lorre |
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