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Kathy Mordecai "Ty's Mom"
 IP: 70.142.46.192 Oct 13, 06 - 11:44 PM |
FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
Just wanted to let all of you moms out there who have been so wonderful, supportive and who have helped me keep it together and find the strength to continue the fight for my son Ty who was murdered August 3, 2006----The new DA assigned to my son's murder case, today-----FILED 1ST DEGREE MURDER CHARGES AGAINST MIKE KREBBS FOR THE MURDER OF MY SON!!!!! KREBBS is supposedly out of state right now in New Mexico but is supposed to be back in McAlester, Oklahoma tomorrow and at that time they plan to arrest him. His bond has been set at $500,000.00. His attorney is already planning on asking for a bond reduction on Monday at Krebbs' initial appearance. Even if they don't lower the bond, Krebbs will be able to make bail I am sure. BUT A VICTORY STILL, but am all to very aware that there is still a very long painful road ahead until and through the jury trial. God Bless each of you, without the support and strength from you guys I would have never kept my sanity this long. Words can't begin to express how much this site and each of you out there who know my pain mean to me, GOD BLESS YOU, GOD BLESS EACH AND EVERY ONE OF US. I will need you all to help me continue on this painful journey and please know that I will be there for each and every one of you. As all of you have told me---together we will all make it through this hell we are all going through. Love To All. Kathy "Ty's Mom" |
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Beverly A Ribaudo Mom to Michael Ribaudo Sr
IP: 198.231.23.240 Oct 14th, 2006 - 12:00 AM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
Kathy, I pulled up McAlester News Capital a little bit ago. I am so glad for you. It certainly is a victory.. |
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Lorre
IP: 207.200.116.70 Oct 14th, 2006 - 2:31 AM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
Dear Kathy, HURRAY!!! As I was praying about this last night, I clearly saw Ty's smiling face in my mind and sensed a positive outcome. I am so happy to hear this news. Please know that at most arraignments the defendants have to plead, "not guilty". This was a shocker to me when I heard it in court. But if it happens, don't let it rattle you, as it is not an idication of anything. This will be a journey but you and Ty are bringing down the years of corruption and unlawfulness for the innocents in your area. You are an admirable woman. Again, I am so happy to hear this news! Another step forwawrd for MOMS everywhere! Love, Lorre |
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Kathy Mordecai "Ty's Mom"
IP: 70.142.46.192 Oct 14th, 2006 - 9:58 AM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
Lorre; Thank you for your prayers for Justice for my Ty. I do believe that you did truly see my Ty's smiling face, and what a beautiful smile it was. He was always smiling, always upbeat and loved life. It is so very hard to make myself talk about him in the past tense. He knows that all of the M.O.M.'S are going through the same HELL that his mother is and he is watching over all of us, that is just how he was, always there for others. I know this is just the beginning of a very long road with the so-called Justice System here. I am aware that his plea at arrainment will be not guilty so I am prepared for that. The new DA assigned to my son's case asked me as a mother and a friend, not as the DA, to not attend the initial appearance. Her reasoning was that as a mother if she were me she did not know if she could sit there as basically keep her mouth shut at Krebbs' initial appearance and she did not know after seeing the shape I was in and knowing the battle I have been fighting here if I could either. I told her that I understood what she was saying and that I could not tell her what my reaction would be seeing the man who murdered my baby for the first time at his initial appearance. I told her I would try to understand and not be there. But I don't know if I can stand to NOT BE THERE. What do you think? I told her that if I don't come to the initial appearance as she suggested, to not ask me to not be present for all other proceedings. She said that she expected and wanted me to be at all other proceedings. I don't really know what the difference would be. Whether it is at his initial appearance or the next one, it will still be the first time I have seen this slime since he murdered my son. I am all to aware that I need to maintain myself with dignity through this whole mess to come and be there to stand up for Justice in my son's place. Honestly, I don't know what I will do, my anger and pain runs deep, all I can do is pray that I control myself. I know that making a scene will not be the thing to do and I pray that I can do that. The tears will flow and anger will boil within me but I pray I can maintain. Let me know your thoughts. They are supposed to call me today as soon as Krebbs is arrested, as of this post, they have not called me yet. Thank all of you for helping me stay strong and fight this battle this long, I could not have done it without all of you! (((((HUGS))))) I Love All Of You, you are my rock. Kathy "Ty's Mom" |
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Tracey (Terrell's MOM)
IP: 141.152.28.247 Oct 14th, 2006 - 11:35 AM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
Congratulations Kathy: I'm delighted to hear that Ty's murderer will soon be arrested for First Degree Murder charges. I am so proud of you as I'm sure Ty is, because it was your persistance and fighting spirit that made this victory happen. I think you would regret not going to the preliminary hearing and I know the DA has good intentions by telling you not to attend but fortuately she does not know what it feels like. I'm sure you won't make a scene because it could possibly compromise justice for Ty and you have worked so hard to see this murderer brought to justice. You owe it to yourself and Ty to look that murderer in the face and let him know that he missed with the wrong person. I have a quick temper so when I went to the preliminary trials of Terrell's murderers, I just kept praying that God would give me the strength to not to do anything that would jeopardize the trial and when they walked in the courtroom, a strength came over me and the tears stopped. Through this whole ordeal, you have maintained your dignity and if you were going to do something crazy, you would have done so already. You are a remarkable woman who has proven she will do anything to fight for her child and you deserve to be at any proceeding that involve Ty's murder. I'm sure with the prayers of all the MOMS to support you, you will be able to stand strong. God Bless You Tracey (Terrell's MOM) |
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Beverly Ribaudo Mom to Michael Ribaudo Sr
IP: 67.126.140.64 Oct 14th, 2006 - 4:35 PM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
Kathy, you know that I am going through this right now with Michael and his court proceedings. My feeling was: I want the murderer to see me there, for through me, she knows that Michael was sitting there. Through me, it makes it tougher on her. You will have to maintain, and it isn't easy. Believe me, it isn't easy. Have two strong people sitting on each side of you. Make sure that these family members can also maintain their composure. You will have your time to speak. The first time I went to court for Jarrod, the guy that drove Jennifer to our home, I passed out. They had to call the paramedics. If you don't maintain, you can be barred from all proceedings and that is what I was told. The courtroom people know it isn't, and most of them understand just how hard it is for me. Most of the attorneys and judges know Michael and know how hard it is for me, but I promised them that I would maintain. I wish I was there for you. My sister that lives there in Eufaula was with me for the first couple of appearances. Everyone will have to maintain their composure, because it is the murderer that has all the rights. The murderer and his attorney, would like nothing more, than to not see you sitting in the courtroom. I will be there in spirit. I know you can do this. You have been so strong up to this point. You need to go the distance for Ty. You need to be there. |
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Jane Jones
IP: 71.54.144.65 Oct 14th, 2006 - 4:47 PM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
Congratulations, I know how wonderful that feeling is. Now the hard road starts and you will find as others have said the courtroom is all about their rights, the victims have none anymore. The first time I saw my sons killers face to face I was so angry and just wanted to hit them but I knew I couldn't. Then their family attacked ours outside the courthouse. I have gone to all the court appearances even though I knew some of them didn't matter but I want them to know anytime they show their face in that courtroom my family and Matt's friends are their too. There is always way more people representing my son than is there to see them. When they plead not guilty though we were shocked and some comments were made, I mean they have confessions, the murder weapon and their clothes with my sons blood on them. The judge told us if we could not contain our selves we could be banned and that is NOT what we want so please do be careful what you say and do. We can't afford to lose that right it is the only voice our children have. I am praying for you as you start this journey. Matt was killed 11/06/05 and the actual trail will not start until 2/19/07. Good luck and god bless you and your family |
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Jackie Tommy's momma
IP: 204.73.103.253 Oct 14th, 2006 - 5:23 PM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
CONGRATULATIONS! Kathy, every time a mom gets an arrest, it's a victory for all the mothers of murdered children, GOD is truely GOOD. stay strong !!!! jackie tommy's momma |
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Kathy Mordecai \"Ty\'s Mom\"
IP: 70.143.53.158 Oct 15th, 2006 - 10:43 AM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
All M.O.M.S. Thank you all so very much. Mike Krebbs was arrested on Saturday afternoon. He is now in the Pittsburg County, McAlester, Oklahoma jail, at least until his initial appearance Monday at 2:00p.m. which at that time we already know that his attorney is going to ask for a bond reduction. And I just wanted to let you all know even though the new DA suggested that I not attend, I have thought about it long and hard and I have made my decision----I WILL BE THERE! I know that Ty will be there with me in spirit and I am confident that I can maintain my dignity and to put it plainly KEEP MY MOUTH SHUT!---I know that is what I have to do, so it is really a simple decision---I WILL JUST DO IT! Ty will help me and I know that he would want me to be there. I want this man to look at me, even if he won't look at me---HE WILL KNOW THAT I AM THERE, HE WILL FEEL MY PRESENCE. |
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Kayt Fossler
IP: 216.98.171.164 Oct 15th, 2006 - 11:35 AM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
You Go Girl!!!!!!!!! Love and Dignaty, were the things that kept me going through all the hell the courts put us through. I knew Wes, would want it that way. I knew he was there standing right beside me holding my hand, walking me through all I had to walk through. In a poem he sent to me a key verse went as such. I have not left and gone away, I'm standing right beside you, so take my hand and walk with me, let my spirit guide you. I did not die, I just moved on.Your faitih it was my teacher, your kindness and wisdom will win out, against the evils featured. I truely believe he sent this to me and it did help and we did get through it. Ty will be there and he will be holding your hand. Much love and strenght. Kayt, Wes's mom |
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Beverly Ribaudo Mom to Michael Ribaudo Sr
IP: 68.120.81.169 Oct 15th, 2006 - 6:25 PM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
Yes, Kathy..This is what I know you need to do. Just think of the all of the other Moms that will there be with you in spirit.. We know you will do what you need to do for Ty. You can do this.... |
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Lorre
IP: 207.200.116.70 Oct 16th, 2006 - 9:02 AM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
Beverly is right Kathy. When I go to court I picture all of the kids faces from the memory board. I have memorized their names and faces and I think of ALL of them, along with my murdered family in that court room. There is quite a crowd of us!! I take a notebook and write down relevant information, questions or concerns, and prayer. On my notebook I have this written: BE NOT DECEIVED, GOD IS NOT MOCKED (Gal 6:7) It reminds me that whatever slimy thing the defense tries to pull or whatever little victories they get, that untimately the rightousness of the Lord will prevail. Let the DA know that you appreciate her concern, but that you will be attendeding. It is best to get used to this environment, as it won't go away and is usually a long process. Best of luck. We are really so happy for you! Love, Lorre |
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sandye oliver
IP: 70.234.152.7 Dec 19th, 2006 - 6:24 PM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
Kathy, I pray that justice will be served. Our girls and sons-in-law knew Ty well. We all miss him. My grandson still ask when Ty will bring Riley over to play. We know this whole deal has been hard on you and we are so glad you stood up tall. May GOD always be with you and your family. Sandye mom of Janice and Tommy, Joy and John-John, and Jayme |
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Kathy "Ty's Mom"
IP: 64.149.40.18 Dec 19th, 2006 - 7:44 PM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
Sandy - Thank you so much for your prayers and your post on this site. All the Moms here have been a life saver for me on more than one occasion, actually most every day since Ty was murdered. Thank all of you for your thoughts and prayers. Maybe we can schedule a play day for Riley and your grandson. Today was the preliminary hearing so it was a hard day. The preliminary was continued to February 8, 2007 @ 10:00a.m., however several witnesses testified prior to the judge ordering it continued to February. Tell everyone to always remember Ty for the great person he was and pray that Justice Be Served. Thank you again. |
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Kay Crawford momma of Joshua Delaney
IP: 75.70.92.34 Dec 19th, 2006 - 11:56 PM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
Kathy, I am so happy for you and Ty, I know he is standing tall and smiling down at his momma, being strong for him and standing up to this awful evil incarnate. I imagine he and my Josh up in heaven and saying ' Look at my momma, she always has my back!' I have made it through the preliminary hearing and thankfully Carlos Ford-Vigil did not do anything stupid. The murder trial is still up in the air for my Josh though. I have to pray good will prevail, but I don't count on it, not with the justice system we have today. However you must remember in the end evil will lose out. Keep your head up girl and don't ever let them see you sweat is my motto. I may be crying on the inside, but they won't see it in court. I help my head up high and hoped he would look me in my eyes, but he never did. That says alot to me right there. Keep us posted and you and Ty are in my prayers Best wishes in these tough times! Kay |
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Jayme Oliver
IP: 24.249.7.98 Dec 31st, 2006 - 7:13 AM |
A POEM FOR TY
Remebering Ty: I can't believe you're gone: tell me please, what went wrong: Your time with us went by so fast: but the mark you left behind will forever last: I can still see your smile: and how it seemed to go on for a mile: I can still picture your beautiful face: and then I think of how your in such a better place: I remember all the love you had inside: and how you always thought life was a great ride: I can hear your laughter in my ears: and remember how you never had any fear: I'll never forget the way you lit up a room when you walked in: always cracking jokes and making everyone grin. Or how you would do anything at least once: being a showoff with all the stunts: I remember all the time of just hanging out: sitting on the tailgate having no doubts: Kicking back singing all those songs: just doing nothing all night long: Or going to Pokie jumping off those clifffs: never thinking about the "what ifs": You always brought the fun wherever you went: being sure you always said what you meant: You had what seemed like a glow around you: no matter what you were going through: I'll always remember all the memories we shared: but knowing you're gone is still so hard to bare: We'll meet again some day, up in the sky: until then we'll always be remembering Ty! (copyright pending) Kathy, this poem was wrote by a friend of Ty's. We all miss him so much! I am so glad that Ty has a mom like you, that will stand up for him! Stay strong! God Bless! ~with love~ Jayme |
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Jayme Oliver
IP: 24.249.7.98 Dec 31st, 2006 - 7:27 AM |
A POEM FOR RILEY
A poem for Riley: You were your daddy's pride and joy: his first and only little boy: He loved you like no other could: and protected you like a daddy should: You lit his world up everyday: he needed you so much in everyway: But sadly, daddy's not here: just remember though he's always near: Always remember he loved you more than words can explain: and he never wanted to cause you pain: His love grew more with everything you did: and that's something he never hid: He wanted so much to watch you grow: to teach you everything you need to know: To help you through life, to show you the ways: to spend with you all the waking days: Daddy will still be with you though you can't see: he will always watch over you wherever you might be: Always remember this is true: your daddy loved to love you! (copyright pending) Kathy, this was wrote by the same friend that wrote the poem for Ty. Just thought I would share both of these poems with you. ~with love~ Jayme |
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Kathy "Ty's Mom"
IP: 70.142.34.201 Dec 31st, 2006 - 11:33 AM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
Jayme Oliver- Oh my, Jayme, thank you for posting the poems. I don't know what to say right now other than thank you. I am crying so hard right now I can barely see or think to type this. Please thank the person who whote them for me. I would love to thank them in person, but please please tell them how very much these poems mean to me and how very much I thank them also. God Bless you both and please always remember Ty and keep those memories in your hearts. Ty is always with us even though we may not see him, he is and will always be in our hearts and in our memories. God Bless, and thank you so much. Kathy "Ty's Mom" |
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Jayme Oliver
IP: 24.249.7.98 Dec 31st, 2006 - 3:01 PM |
POEMS
Kathy, I will be more then happy to thank the person for you. We are making a board to put those poems on to put at Ty's grave. Ty meant alot to all of us! And I think about him everyday! If you ever need anything give me a call 470-1249. ~with love~ Jayme |
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Kathy \"Ty\'s Mom\"
IP: 70.142.34.201 Dec 31st, 2006 - 3:12 PM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
Jayme - God Bless You and again Thank You So Very Much. I will be sure to show the poems to Ty's brother Ryon. I don't know if you are aware or not, but Ryon and Jessica had their second son and they named him after Ty, the very name that Ty in a joking manner at the time asked them to name the baby. He told them that they should name the baby after him, Tyler and that is just what they did. I know Ty is very proud in Heaven right now. |
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Jayme Oliver
IP: 24.249.7.98 Dec 31st, 2006 - 3:32 PM |
POEMS
Well i heard that ryan and jessica was going to do that, but I didn't know she had already had the baby. Congrats for the new grandson! I know Ty would be proud! I hope Ryan likes the poems also. The person that wrote them doesn't want anyone to know who wrote them poems, coz she said that she don't want everyone to think of her in writing it, she wants everyone to think of Ty. It made sense to me, and I hope you understand also. But I will tell her that you liked them poems. Just think of them as being wrote by TY'S FRIENDS FROM HAILEYVILLE! ~with love~ Jayme |
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Kathy \"Ty\'s Mom\"
IP: 70.142.34.201 Dec 31st, 2006 - 5:09 PM |
Re: FINALLY--ARREST WARRANT-1ST DEGREE MURDER1
I do understand Jayme, just please give whomever wrote the poems a big hug from me, Ty's son Riley, Ryon, Jessica, little Gavin and Ty's new namesake, little Tyler. I am reminded many times each day how very loved my beloved son Ty was. There will never be another like him. God Bless you all. Kathy "Ty's Mom" Kathy "Ty's Mom |
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